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Newsflash: Couple's Ability To Fight Fair Predicts Whether The Marriage Survives
Learn Techniques To Turn Arguments into Constructive Relationship Builders, and Learn to Fight Fair
Or Get It On The KindleThe research on what makes relationships work is astoundingly consistent. In fact, some researcher claim they can predict which couples will still be together in the future, based on observing them in disagreement discussions for no more than five minutes. The findings show they are right!
Not only does HOW you handle disagreements determine what will happen to your family relationships, but it also makes a difference with friends, and in the workplace.
It's all about "fighting fairly". What's great is that all of the fighting fairly techniques can be easily learned, and we're hear to help.
The "Learn To Fight Fair and Survive Your Disagreements LearnBytes Helpcard outlines what you can DO and say to turn disagreements around, AND it explains what NOT to do.
All in about 30 minutes of reading. Of course, we can supply the information to you, but it's up to you to change your behavior -- that's going to take some commitment and effort.
Then again, isn't your marriage, or relationships with friends and co-workers worth it? Can YOU make the commitment?
The Point: No relationship is without fighting and arguing. What distinguishes relationships that work from those that don't is how the arguing is done. You can learn to fight fair, and actually reduce the negative effects of disagreement while reducing the chances of arguments in the future. Many of us haven't had a chance to learn fair fighting, and that brings us to our Learn To Fight Fair Helpcard, a fast way to learn what to do and not do -- and something you can share with others you tend to argue with; friends, family or co-workers.
What You'll Learn About Fighting Fair
Written by conflict expert author Robert Bacal, Learn To Fight Fair Helpcard provides you with specific instructions so you can argue, disagree, and even fight in constructive ways that will enhance the relationships, rather than destroy it. This 2 sided 8.5 x 11 inch card describes the fifteen "dirty fighting" techniques you need to eliminate, and over eighteen specific techniques you can use today to "fight fair". Here's what you will learn to help you relationship succeed over time.
- What Is Fighting Fair
- The Essence of Fighting Fairl
- How To Eliminate Dirty Fighting
- How To Argue Constructively
- How To Use Specific, Easy To Learn Fight Fair Techniques
- How To Plan For "Fair Fights" In Your Relationship
Each of these strategies is explained.
Take A Look Right Now
Even if you can't afford this huge relationship saver/builder, you can still benefit, since we've provided a portion of this mini-gude, so you can learn some of the basics of fighting fair.
Learn To FIght Fair And Save Your Relationship Mini Guide by Robert Bacal